
Casket designed by Brian Tenorio for Lux Mortem.
One of the most heartbreaking and difficult experiences life has in store is laying a loved one to rest. It is never easy, but it is part of life. It is the final punctuation on a life lived, shared, and ultimately treasured through the days, weeks and years together. There aren’t any shortcuts to take about it, and it can be a test of character in itself.
It is only right that a family treats one’s last rites with respect and honor. A major part of honoring this is handling the funeral, and the different aspects that come with it. Different families have different customs, and different people have wishes that need to be respected. These can be a complex series of processes, events and details that all culminate in one last gathering to honor their memory. This can take time and money, but they are for many a small price to pay to respect one’s passing.
Yet the price of death has never been more expensive. Land reserved for cemeteries is no longer a readily available commodity like it was years ago. Also, the costs for undertaker services, a coffin, and the other features of modern-day memorial rites have not gone down, but have also been moving along with the market. It has become increasingly troubling to encounter people who are unable to properly go about these already trying days, while still having to wrestle with money matters and prices.
We at MiCash care about you. Here are some points that just might make the difficult days a little easier.
1. Coffin Rental
Considering how most people won’t really get to keep a coffin, it just might be a very practical measure to rent a coffin instead of having to buy one. Rented coffins are used for the wake, ideal as a good display for one’s visitors. The remains will be buried in a shell casket, and so the coffin can be reused for future needs. It’s practical, affordable and environmentally sound, too.
2. Cremation
Cremation has been in use for years, and people will have different opinions about it. Some cultures are forbidden to cremate their dead, while for others it’s really the only way to go.
What can’t be denied is that in some states, and for some services, a cremation can be almost six times cheaper than a burial. This also has not factored in the prices for a plot of land, people who keep a family crypt and the other costs of maintaining the place. Cremations are known to be a one-shot deal, and it’s up to the family to decide what to do with the ashes.
3. Keeping Things Simple
Unless it was his or her dying wish that the services include everyone from back home, it’s probably better to keep to simpler, more intimate services. True, something straight out of the film “Elizabethtown” would be memorable and sweet – it is – but there are also practical considerations to think about. A simple service may be better and more meaningful for all involved.
Sometimes, when it comes to these situations, people do not care on how much they will spend to those family members who died. Maybe it’s because they want to give what the dead deserves as for his / her final moments here on earth. And it’s not about practicality. Moreover, they do not want to give the dead (like the coffin) to be his / her own because they want to give respect to the dead and of course who would want to rent a coffin. Maybe I am just saying this because of tradition or practice in my family. But of course not everyone would have the same traditions or views like me so I guess this is work for those families who cannot afford to buy themselves their own coffins for their dead loved ones.
Death is inevitable and we cannot escape that fact that one way or another, someone will die and of course someone or a group of people will eventually prepare for the things needed to be done to give their final respects to the dead. Though these things may be expensive but would you think you would give the dead something cheap. Maybe for the living, it’s ok for them to give something cheap but for the dead, it’s different case. Holding a wake is expensive plus the things needed are the same – from the coffin to the flowers to the venue and lastly the cemetery where the dead will be buried. These are the things that should be considered by many people who are experiencing grief in expense of the death of their loved ones.